Pumas dating younger guys
So when there's an older woman in the picture--a woman who is likely a little more experienced, a little more secure in her career, a little more self-assured--the power balance is more equal.3) By the year 2010, in the U. there will be one million more men in the 25-44 age range than women. And as Lisa Daily, author of "How To Date Like a Grown-up," puts it: "Those bachelors in the prime of their lives won't just sit around crying in their soup about the lack of available women--they'll pursue women over 40."Lovelies ...
I have the feeling a bunch of you are gonna disagree with me here ...
They try harder: They feel so lucky and excited about the fact that they have the chance to be with an older woman that they will try their best to “man up” (pun absolutely intended) and impress their Puma.
They’re more fun: This depends a lot on how much older you are than your guy, but general rule of thumb is that a guy who is three years younger than you will be a lot more fun than one who is three years older than you and is probably in a more advanced stage in his professional life than the younger guy (although this isn’t always the case, a lot of kids get their shit together from a very early age, and a lot of guys just never get their shit together.) They are very eager to please you: Both in the bedroom and outside, since they are under the illusion (false or real) that you have more experience than they do and have a long trajectory of being wined and dined in really amazing places and a lot of sexual encounters to compare them to.
Some forums can only be seen by registered members. A difference between men and women often in this regard is often a man doesn't care how he got it as long as he got it.
This gives you an unconscious license to let your guard down and be goofier and more free-spirited than you would normally allow yourself to be with an older guy. Believe it or not, in the long run, this will make you happier than you could ever be with a guy you feel you need to impress, which is why it is so great to date a younger man.
With a youngster you’re not afraid to let him see you at your absolute worst, which means he will see your best side and your worst side and very likely still love you, because he sees you as his trophy (hey man!
Which is to say: Conventions and biological clocks, be damned! In it, she says she doesn't know how she became the cougar poster-woman ... What's more, I waited a time to lose my virginity--so maybe my libido is younger than I am, and chooses its targets accordingly? Anyway, it's also true that the babies tend to come to me; on Monday alone, I was contacted via the online personals by a 23-year-old, a 24-year-old, and a 25-year-old, all of whom actually seem eligible. As a result of Monday's somewhat unsual statistics, my darling Parisian friend Patrick (who is five years younger than I am) and I got into a chat about the joys of, shall we say, puma-dom. 1) When there's a 5-10 year age difference, and the man is younger, it's a great match of sexual self-knowledge on the part of the female and sexual energy on the part of the male.
As Patrick put it, "By the time a woman reaches her thirties, she's more comfortable with her sexuality--she knows what she wants and how to get it better. And when the guy is younger, his stamina is no question. When an older man is with a much-younger woman, however, as Patrick pointed out, it's definitely not about the sex--certainly not for 2) In my experience, there's not a creepy power imbalance.